SURVIVING VIRGO MEN
If you survived a virgo man, congrats. You are a survivor. If you're still caught up with one, this is for you!
Virgo Season: August 23 - September 22
(Sun, Moon, Rising, or Virgo Stellium will apply)
BEST signs for Virgo Men: Taurus, Pisces, Scorpio
WORST signs for Virgo Men: Gemini, Aquarius, Leo
Positive Traits: supportive, logical, soft-hearted, helpful, thoughtful, analytical, productive
Negative traits: overly critical, manipulative, calculating, opinionated, moody, scheming
Notable Virgo Men: Michael Jackson, Prince Harry, Armie Hammer, Keanu Reeves, Adam Sandler, Chris Pine, Charlie Sheen, Playboy Carti, Wiz Khalifa, and Joe Budden.
Virgo men haven’t dominated the headlines over the years as much as other signs, but Virgos like Prince Harry, Armie Hammer, Michael Jackson, and Charlie Sheen have had their fair share of media buzz.
*disclaimer, not all Virgo men will act in the manner that I’m about to describe. These are my observations paired with my knowledge of astrology. A lot of things play into someone’s birth chart. Use it to understand the Virgo man better or Virgo men; use this as a guide.
TIP #1: TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE
Virgo men will try to take control of your life. If he isn’t in control, then be prepared to experience the unhinged side of Virgo. They feel safer about the world around them when they’re in control. The Virgo man is someone that notices everything or notices nothing, totally oblivious to the world around him. You can say that the Virgo man lives in his head a lot. They overthink to the point of no control. Virgo men can’t control their lives, so they try to control others.
In relationships, Virgo men may become highly possessive. They may feel as if they own their significant other. Virgo men will attempt to rob you of your freedom and take away everyone in your life. In some instances, Virgo men will try to turn you against your family and friends. They tend to brainwash people into thinking a certain way.
TIP #2: NEVER BLAME YOURSELF
Virgo men do not express emotion openly or organically. These men will put on a front to mask their sensitivity. He is a lot more emotional than he appears to be. Virgo men expect everyone to understand their emotions. How are we supposed to understand someone that doesn’t open up to anyone, not even the ones that are closest to him? Virgo men don’t even understand their own emotions.
Nevertheless, we don't believe this is our fault, but somehow, the Virgo man will blame anyone else but themselves. He will find a way to make a victim out of himself. The emotions that a Virgo man has buried away will quickly manifest as anger. He is short-tempered and will lash out if he feels challenged or misunderstood. Virgo men can become very angry if they do not find a healthy outlet to express themselves emotionally.They need constant reassurance to feel satisfied in relationships. Unfortunately, Virgo men have abandonment issues, both physically and emotionally. They have this fear of being abandoned, which feeds into the Virgo man's paranoia.
In relationships, Virgo men may accuse their partners of cheating and later realize they were wrong. He will pick apart his relationships and overanalyze every situation, driving away their significant other. These men usually self-implode in relationships; they have ruined every relationship they’ve ever been in because they’re too confusing, self-sabotaging, and controlling. I mean, who wants to deal with all that baggage??
TIP #3: HIS QUIETNESS IS TELLING
Virgo men will turn into troglodytes and go into periods of dead silence. Silence is one of their red flags. He’s either plotting, cheating, or not interested in you. They wake up one day and choose silence. It’s great for the rest of us because we don’t need to hear their bitching and complaining, which is another enticing thing about them. They love to disappear from time to time and pop back up like they haven’t been gone for the last six months.
These men are private, private about their personal lives. You would have never known he had ten kids by ten different baby mamas because he was playing you in your face the whole time. They aren’t one to drop personal information because they don’t need anyone to be one step ahead of them. Everything they do is calculated and well-planned. He doesn’t need to be vocal to get shit done. He moves in silence, which makes the Virgo man dangerous.
TIP #4: HIGHLY OPINIONATED
Be prepared for his opinions. Virgo men think they know what’s best for everyone. He will give you unsolicited advice that comes from a place of judgment. They speak like superiors because of all the information swirling in their brain. In return, it will hurt the feelings of the receiving end, but you have to understand this is who they are at their worst. It will get better if they can silence the noise inside them. I think their excessive opinions come from insecurity. They are not happy with themselves, for whatever reason, and will take it out on others to make themselves feel better. Virgo men battle insecurity just as much as Virgo women, but they hide it better. Virgo women take the initiative to embrace their flaws which only leads to their glow-up. However, The Virgo man can stay stagnant in his flaws for years or even life.
TIP #5: HE’S UNUSUALLY FREAKY
Virgo men are into weird kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. It may seem creepy, but some people may like that. If you feel the Virgo man is boring in bed, consider yourself unlucky because they don’t feel comfortable enough to share their kink with you.
They don’t put much work into sex unless they like you—for example, Archie Hammer, a Virgo with a cannibalism fetish. He dominated the headlines in 2021 for his outrageous direct messages to his former lovers, where he carefully explained his wicked fantasies and kinks. An ex, who later came forward, said that Hammer asked to have her ribs removed so that he could barbecue them. Virgo men may not all have a cannibalism kink, but they have some kind of kink beyond our wildest imagination.
I hope you learned a few things about surviving a virgo man.
until next time,
This is so accurate, it's beyond accurate. I have been dealing with Virgo men throughout my history and everything said here was exactly on point.
Holy shiiit on fucking POINT!!!! like literally on P-O-I-N-T!!!!!